Manogomy is a man-made concept. Personally I dont see any objective reason for it at all. Most people have a very delusional idea of what "love" is. Its absolutely insane to me how people somehow think Marriage or Commitment somehow defines how much they love or care for a person.
What i've personally observed is, cheating is the result of not living in alignment with your values.
I honestly believe most people get in relationships for comfort and stimulation. To compensate for a lack of fulfillment in their life. They seek fulfillment in other people, to make up for their lack of life purpose.
The sad thing is, casual sex is shamed in our society and everyone is persuded into relationships because society potrays it as just the "normal" thing to do.
So women are afraid of being called a slut for expressing their sexuality. And most men in our society are straight up pathetic. They are so afraid to express themselves authentically and assume they have to talk a special way to women, and this, women sense their ungenuine vibe and reject them. Then the guys blame it on the "assholes" or make some crazy excuses like "oh girls only like assholes. Blah blah. Girls dont like dem dere nice guys".
Its the saddest thing in the world. Men dont know how to talk to women and lack an abundance of options. So they just take what ever women they can put a ring on. As opposed to actually dating many different women and actually getting to the point where you seriously know what you want in a partner.
But most people do not align their life with their values. They dont align their relationships with their values, and so their relationships are built on fragile foundations. So any chance these people get to cheat, they dont value their partner enough to say no.
Furthermore, most people have absolutely no clue what values even are.
I believe Men are hardwired to spread his seed, literally and metaphorically.
Women, I dont know. Ive had sex with tons of females who had boyfriends. They called their boyfriends faggits, as if the girls didnt even know why they were in the relationship to begin with.
Its like they're just in a relationship because they have nothing else in life to stimulate or entertain them.
What i've personally observed is, cheating is the result of not living in alignment with your values.
I honestly believe most people get in relationships for comfort and stimulation. To compensate for a lack of fulfillment in their life. They seek fulfillment in other people, to make up for their lack of life purpose.
The sad thing is, casual sex is shamed in our society and everyone is persuded into relationships because society potrays it as just the "normal" thing to do.
So women are afraid of being called a slut for expressing their sexuality. And most men in our society are straight up pathetic. They are so afraid to express themselves authentically and assume they have to talk a special way to women, and this, women sense their ungenuine vibe and reject them. Then the guys blame it on the "assholes" or make some crazy excuses like "oh girls only like assholes. Blah blah. Girls dont like dem dere nice guys".
Its the saddest thing in the world. Men dont know how to talk to women and lack an abundance of options. So they just take what ever women they can put a ring on. As opposed to actually dating many different women and actually getting to the point where you seriously know what you want in a partner.
But most people do not align their life with their values. They dont align their relationships with their values, and so their relationships are built on fragile foundations. So any chance these people get to cheat, they dont value their partner enough to say no.
Furthermore, most people have absolutely no clue what values even are.
I believe Men are hardwired to spread his seed, literally and metaphorically.
Women, I dont know. Ive had sex with tons of females who had boyfriends. They called their boyfriends faggits, as if the girls didnt even know why they were in the relationship to begin with.
Its like they're just in a relationship because they have nothing else in life to stimulate or entertain them.